Sha’awa

Rashin sha'awa ga maza, matsalace da maza da yawa kan yi korafi akanta, a wannan rubutun, zamu yi bayani yanda matsalar take da abubuwan dake kawota da kuma maganinta. Abubuwan dake kawo rashin sha'awa ga maza Rashin Kwanciyar Hankali: Masana kiwon lafiya musamman na bangaren jima'i sun bayyana cewa, rashin kwanciyar hankali na daya daga cikin abubuwan dake kawarwa namiji sha'awa, misali a yayin da mutum ke cikin tsananin bashi kuma me kudin na nemanka ruwa a jallo, ko kuma an kori mutum daga aiki kuma bashi da hanyar ciyar da iyalansa, da dai sauransu. Kibar da ta wuce misali: Yawan kiba na daya daga cikin abubuwan da masana kiwon lafiya sukace take rage karfin sha'awa. Musamman idan mutum ya zamana me yawan ciye-ciyene barkatai. Rashin Cin Abinci me kyau: Rashin Cin abinci me...

Rashin sha'awa ko raguwar karfin sha'awa ga mata abune dake faruwa yau da gobe kuma yana faruwa da kowace mace a iya tsawon rayuwarta. A wani lokacin zaki ji karfin sha'awarki ya ragu na dan lokaci ko na kwanaki kadan, a wani lokacin kuma zai iya daukar kwanaki da yawa ko ma watanni. Kowane mutum da irin karfin sha'awarsa, wani zai ji yana son yin jima'i kullun wani sai bayan satuka ko bayan watanni kai wata ma a shekara ba zata so yin jima'i sosai ba, kowa da kalar karfin sha'awarshi. Yanayin karfin sha'awarki ba zai taba iya zama a matsayi guda ba a kowane lokaci, ma'ana zai rika yin sama yana kasa, kuma hakan ba matsala bane. Saidai idan rashin sha'awarki yayi yawa kuma ya fara damunki, to ya kamata a tuntubi likita ko a nemi magani. Sannan kuma a sani, mafi yawanci ana g...

Ana gane mace 'yar iska ce ta hanyoyin dabi'u da shigar jikinta ko kalamai da kuma irin mutanen da take ma'amala dasu. Mace wadda take 'yar iska, ko ace ''yar bariki, takan kasance Mara kunya ta yanda zata iya fadar komai ko yin komai ba tare da Shakkar kowa ba. Mace ''yar iska zaka ji kalamanta bata tsaftace su, takan iya fadar kalaman batsa ko na zagi ko cin mutunci ga kowa. Hakanan takan kasance idan tana magana da namiji zata iya kallon sa ido cikin ido ba tare da shakka ba. Hakanan mace ''yar iska, bata damu ba Dan namiji ya taba jikinta ba, ba zata taba yin korafi ba Dan namiji ya taba jikinta ba, asali ma zata iya yin gaisuwa, runguma, ko sumbatar namiji a bainar jama'a ba tare da damuwa ba. Hakanan mace ''yar iska zaka ga abokanta ko kawayenta 'yan iska ne, da wuya t...

Sha'awa halittace a jikin kowane dan Adam, kuma kamar yanda kuke ganin wani dogo wani gajere, haka itama sha'awa karfi-karfi ce, ta wani tafi ta wani. Kuma maganar gaskiya babu wani maganin yawan sha'awa na likita da za'a baka a ace kasha. Saidai mazon Allah (SAW) ya baiwa matasa da basu da halin yin aure shawarar su riki yin azumi saboda yana dakushe sha'awa. Amma muddin mutum lafiyarsa qalau kuma zai ci ya koshi kuma yana cikin kwanciyar hankali dolene ya ji sha'awa. Ita sha'awa wata jarabawa itama daga Allah ga dan Adam domin a ga kokarinsa wajan amfani da ita ta hanyar da ya dace, kamar dai yanda dukiya da talauci suke jarabawa ga dan Adam. Kaine da kanka zakawa sha'awarka linzami kada ta kaika ga halaka ko kuma ka biyata ta banyar da bata dace ba. Hanyoyin da za'a bi...