Jima'i - Hutudole

Dec52024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Alamomin mutuwar azzakari

Za'a iya game cewa Azzakari ya mutu idan ya zamana cewa baya iya mikewa da kyau ta yanda mutum zai iya yin jima'i ya gamsu. Hakanan idan ya zamana mutum baya jin sha'awa, ko kuma karfin sha'awarsa ta ragu sosai, shima za'a iya cewa Azzakarinsa ya mutu. Amma idan ya zamana cewa yau mazakutarka ta mike gobe ta ki mikewa, wannan ba matsalar mutuwar azzakari bane, idan ya zamana bata mikewa da kyau ne ta yanda zaka gamsu ko kuma baka dadewa Sam kake kawowa to ya kamata a nemi likita. Abubuwan dake kawo mutuwar Azzakari sun hadada: Yawan kiba. Ciwon Sugar ko Diabetes. Ciwon zuciya. Yawan kitse a jiki. Rashin kwanciyar hankali. Damuwa. Rashin Samun isashshen bacci. Shan giya. Shan taba da sauransu. Ana magance matsalar mutuwar Azzakarine ta hanyoyin: Mo...

Dec22024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Wacece mace mai kyau

Auratayya, Budurci, Gaban mace, Jima'i, Kwalliya, Sha'awa, Soyayya

Shi kyau kala biyune Dana zahiri Dana badini. Kyan Zahiri shine Wanda ake gani da ido, watau fuska me kyau, dogon hanci, fari, da sauransu. Mace me Kyan zahiri za'a iya ganinta fara, doguwa, me matsakaitan mazaunai da matsakaitan nonuwa me fararen idanu, da fararen hakora sannan ta iya wanka. Saidai shi Kyan zahiri yana dusashewa musamman Idan girma ya fara kama mace, shiyasa ake son mace ta hada kyau biyu watau na zahiri dana badini. A lokuta da dama, mace zata iya samun kyan badini amma bata dana zahiri, to idan so samune, mace ta hada duka biyun, amma idan ya zama mutum zaba zai yi tsakanin mace me kyan badini bata dana zahiri da kuma me kyan zahiri bata dana badini, to a shawarce mutum ya dauki mace me kyan badini bata dana zahiri yafi. Shi kuma kyan badini, yawanci ba'a...

Dec22024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Wacece mace mai addini

Gaban mace, Ilimi, Jima'i, Sha'awa, Soyayya

Mace mai addini itace kamila wadda ke da kamun kai, da ilimi na addini dana boko, wadda kuma ta samu tarbiyya irin ta addinin musulunci. Mace mai addini itace wadda bata shigar banza dake nuna tsiraicinta, gashinta a rufe, ba ta sa matsatstsun kaya, bata sa kaya shara-shara Wanda ke nuna cikin jikinta, ta na son saka hijabi. Mace mai addini idan tana da saurayi bata zama kusa dashi su manne suna jin dumin jikin juna. Kuma duk son da take masa bata yadda ya taba jikinta. Mace mai addini tana kokarin kiyaye dokokin Allah da kuma tunatar da Wanda suke kusa da ita suma su kiyaye dokokin Allah. Mace me addini ta iya kalamai na hankali Wanda babu wauta, cin fuska, ko wulakanci a ciki.

Dec12024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Wacece mace mai dadi

Jima'i

Mace mai dadi a bakin mafi yawancin maza itace wadda idan aka yi jima'i da ita ake gamsuwa sosai. Mafi yawa sukan bayyana mace me dadi da wadannan suffofin na kasa: Me jiki me laushi. Me madaidaitan mazaunai. Me madaidaitan nonuwa. Wadda ta iya kwanciyar aure. Wadda bata kosawa idan ana jima'i da ita. Wadda ke da wadataccen ruwan ni'ima a gabanta ba sai an sanya ko shafa mai ba. Da dai Sauransu. Irin wannan macence mafi yawan maza ke bayyanawa da mace me dadi. Saidai shi jin dadin mace yana da fadi sosai, abinda ya gamsar da wani ba lallai ya gamsar da kowa ba. Misali, akwai wanda yafi son mace me manyan mazaunai itace Zata gamsar dashi, wani kuma yafi son me madaidaita, wani kuma yafi son me kanana, haka abin yake idan aka je fannin nonuwa.

Nov232024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Ciwon mara bayan saduwa

Jima'i, Matsalolin Mara

Ciwon Mara bayan saduwa ko ace ciwon Mara bayan jima'i Abu ne da mata da yawa kan yi korafi akai. Saidai jin ciwon Mara bayan jima'i a wasu lokutan Matsala ne a wasu lokutan kuma ba matsala bane. Misali, mace zata iya jin ciwon Mara bayan saduwa idan ya zamana namijin da ta yi jima'i dashi yana da babbar mazakuta kuma a yayin da yake jima'i da ita ya rika tura mata mazakutar cikin farjinta sosai. Dan kaucewa wannan matsalar, sai mace ta daina yin goho yayin jima'i kuma ta daina kwanciya namiji ya hau kanta, wadannan kalar kwanciyar su ne kesa mazakutar namiji ta rika shiga cikin farjinki sosai Wanda bayan an gama jima'i, zaki iya jin ciwon mara. Maimakon goho da kwanciya, mace sai ta kwanta a gefen hagunta ko damarta shi kuma namiji ya kwanta ta bayanta su yi jima'in a haka, ko...

Nov212024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Ya ake gane mace ta gamsu

Jima'i

Gane gamsuwar mace yayin jima'i ko, ya ake gane mace tayi releasing ko kuma muce ya ake gane mace ta kawo abu ne dake tattare da sarkakkiya, watau abune me wahala. Hanya mafi sauki itace ka tambayeta shin ta kawo? Wata zata gaya maka gaskiya a yayin da wata karya zata maka, wata kuma ba zama ta iya gaya maka ba. Namiji na jin dadi a ransa Idan ya fahimci cewa yasa mace ta yi releasing ko ta kawo, hakan yakan sa yaji cewa eh lallai shi ya cika jarumi, sannana shima sanin kawowar mace, yana taimakawa wasu mazan kawowa. Irin yanda mata ke releasing ba kala data bane, ya banbanta daga mace zuwa mace. Amma hanyoyi da aka fi game cewa mace ta kawo sune kamar haka: Wata Idan ta kawo zata rirrikeka, Saboda dadi da rikicewa. Wata Idan ta kawo zata tura kanta baya ta rufe idanu Sab...

Nov142024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Yadda ake gane sha’awar namiji ta tashi

Jima'i

Sha'awar Namiji na da saukin ganewa, saboda abu kadanne yake tayar da sha'awar yawancin maza. Wani gashin mace zai gani ya tayar masa da sha'awa, wani lalle zai gani, wani kafar mace ko hannunta zai gani ya tayar masa da sha'awa, kai wani ma fuskarta kawai ko lebenta zai gani sha'awarsa ta tashi. Wani kuma da ya ga shacin nonon mace shikenan sha'awarsa ta tashi. Hanya mafi sauki ta gane sha'awar namiji ta tashi itace za'a ga azzakarinsa ya mike. Wani kuma idanunsa zasu yi ja, muryarsa zata kankance.

Nov142024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Alamomin namiji mazinaci

Jima'i

Namiji Mazinaci ba'a ganeshi a fuska amma akwai alamun da zai nuna miki wanda zaki san cewa lallai ba soyayyar gaskiya ce yake miki ba. Wadannan Alamomi sun hada da: Zai rika son ya taba jikinki a koda yaushe. Zai rika son ya rika miki maganar batsa a ko da yaushe. Zai nemi yayi zina dake. Idan zai baki abu, ba zai baki haka siddan ba sai ya nemi yin lalata dake. Zai rika nuna miki hotuna da Bidiyon batsa. Ba zai damu da damuwarki ba, kawai dai abinda ke gabanshi shine ya kwanta dake. Zai gindaya miki sharadin idan zai baki yadda yayi zina dake ba zaku rabu. Zai miki alkawuran abubuwan ban mamaki idan kika yadda ya yi zina dake. A mafi yawan lokuta idan Namiji ya nuna irin wannan halayya to zaki iya gane cewa mazinaci ne ba sonki yake tsakani da Allah ba. D...

Nov132024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Sha awar mace da namiji

Jima'i

Kowane tsakanin namiji da mace suna da sha'awa, saidai bisa al'ada akan ce sha'awar mace ta fi karfi amma ita kuyace ke hanata nunawa. Bincike dai ya tabbatar da cewa, maza sun fi mata tunani akan jima'i,kuma sun fi mata neman yin jima'i, kuma sha'awarsu tafi sauri da saukin tashi fiye da ta mata. A yayin da su kuma mata yanayin sha'awarsu abune me cike da rikitarwa. Malami a jami'ar Indiana ta kasar Amurka, Justin Garcia, PhD, da kuma kwararriya me bayar da shawara kan rayuwar aure, Sarah Hunter Murray, PhD sun bayyana cewa, ba lallai a samu sakamako me kyau ba bayan yin binciken wa yafi karfin sha'awa tsakanin namiji da mace ba. Dalilinsu kuwa shine yawanci maza sukan iya bayyana ra'ayinsu akan irin wannan zance amma mata ba kasafai sukan iya fadar abinda ke ransu ba game da ...

Nov132024 by Auwal AbubakarNo Comments

Menene maganin wasa da gaba

Jima'i

Wasu Mata da maza, Musamman wadanda basu da aure sukan yi wasa da gabansu dan su gamsar da kansu a duk sanda sha'awarsu ta motsa. Wannan abu da ake yi, yakan iya zama yau da gobe watau har ya zamana ya zamarwa mutum dabi'a mw wahalar dainawa. A daidai lokacin da abin ya zamarwa mutum dabi'a, kuma ya kara hankali, sai ya ga cewa ya kamata ya daina,anan ne sai a fara neman magani. To maganar gaskiya babu wani magani na likita ko na gargajiya da ake sha dan ya hanaka ko ya hanaki yin wasa da gabanka ko gabanki. Dalili kuwa, dabi'a ne ba cuta ba. Ita kuwa dabi'a, mutum ne da kansa yake hana kansa yi, saidai akan iya bayar da shawarwari. Misali idan mutum na son ya daina wasa da gabansa, ya kamata ya kiyaye wadannan abubuwan: Ya daina kallon Fina-finan batsa. Ya daina h...