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Gane gamsuwar mace yayin jima'i ko, ya ake gane mace tayi releasing ko kuma muce ya ake gane mace ta kawo abu ne dake tattare da sarkakkiya, watau abune me wahala. Hanya mafi sauki itace ka tambayeta shin ta kawo? Wata zata gaya maka gaskiya a yayin da wata karya zata maka, wata kuma ba zama ta iya gaya maka ba. Namiji na jin dadi a ransa Idan ya fahimci cewa yasa mace ta yi releasing ko ta kawo, hakan yakan sa yaji cewa eh lallai shi ya cika jarumi, sannana shima sanin kawowar mace, yana taimakawa wasu mazan kawowa. Irin yanda mata ke releasing ba kala data bane, ya banbanta daga mace zuwa mace. Amma hanyoyi da aka fi game cewa mace ta kawo sune kamar haka: Wata Idan ta kawo zata rirrikeka, Saboda dadi da rikicewa. Wata Idan ta kawo zata tura kanta baya ta rufe idanu Sab...

Sha'awar Namiji na da saukin ganewa, saboda abu kadanne yake tayar da sha'awar yawancin maza. Wani gashin mace zai gani ya tayar masa da sha'awa, wani lalle zai gani, wani kafar mace ko hannunta zai gani ya tayar masa da sha'awa, kai wani ma fuskarta kawai ko lebenta zai gani sha'awarsa ta tashi. Wani kuma da ya ga shacin nonon mace shikenan sha'awarsa ta tashi. Hanya mafi sauki ta gane sha'awar namiji ta tashi itace za'a ga azzakarinsa ya mike. Wani kuma idanunsa zasu yi ja, muryarsa zata kankance.

Namiji Mazinaci ba'a ganeshi a fuska amma akwai alamun da zai nuna miki wanda zaki san cewa lallai ba soyayyar gaskiya ce yake miki ba. Wadannan Alamomi sun hada da: Zai rika son ya taba jikinki a koda yaushe. Zai rika son ya rika miki maganar batsa a ko da yaushe. Zai nemi yayi zina dake. Idan zai baki abu, ba zai baki haka siddan ba sai ya nemi yin lalata dake. Zai rika nuna miki hotuna da Bidiyon batsa. Ba zai damu da damuwarki ba, kawai dai abinda ke gabanshi shine ya kwanta dake. Zai gindaya miki sharadin idan zai baki yadda yayi zina dake ba zaku rabu. Zai miki alkawuran abubuwan ban mamaki idan kika yadda ya yi zina dake. A mafi yawan lokuta idan Namiji ya nuna irin wannan halayya to zaki iya gane cewa mazinaci ne ba sonki yake tsakani da Allah ba. D...

Kowane tsakanin namiji da mace suna da sha'awa, saidai bisa al'ada akan ce sha'awar mace ta fi karfi amma ita kuyace ke hanata nunawa. Bincike dai ya tabbatar da cewa, maza sun fi mata tunani akan jima'i,kuma sun fi mata neman yin jima'i, kuma sha'awarsu tafi sauri da saukin tashi fiye da ta mata. A yayin da su kuma mata yanayin sha'awarsu abune me cike da rikitarwa. Malami a jami'ar Indiana ta kasar Amurka, Justin Garcia, PhD, da kuma kwararriya me bayar da shawara kan rayuwar aure, Sarah Hunter Murray, PhD sun bayyana cewa, ba lallai a samu sakamako me kyau ba bayan yin binciken wa yafi karfin sha'awa tsakanin namiji da mace ba. Dalilinsu kuwa shine yawanci maza sukan iya bayyana ra'ayinsu akan irin wannan zance amma mata ba kasafai sukan iya fadar abinda ke ransu ba game da ...

Wasu Mata da maza, Musamman wadanda basu da aure sukan yi wasa da gabansu dan su gamsar da kansu a duk sanda sha'awarsu ta motsa. Wannan abu da ake yi, yakan iya zama yau da gobe watau har ya zamana ya zamarwa mutum dabi'a mw wahalar dainawa. A daidai lokacin da abin ya zamarwa mutum dabi'a, kuma ya kara hankali, sai ya ga cewa ya kamata ya daina,anan ne sai a fara neman magani. To maganar gaskiya babu wani magani na likita ko na gargajiya da ake sha dan ya hanaka ko ya hanaki yin wasa da gabanka ko gabanki. Dalili kuwa, dabi'a ne ba cuta ba. Ita kuwa dabi'a, mutum ne da kansa yake hana kansa yi, saidai akan iya bayar da shawarwari. Misali idan mutum na son ya daina wasa da gabansa, ya kamata ya kiyaye wadannan abubuwan: Ya daina kallon Fina-finan batsa. Ya daina h...